Can Women have sex like Men?
This question is riddled with generalizations such as; all women want relationships, all men are self-gratifying bastards, every person a woman has sex with must enter into a binding contract of monogamy etc etc.
In 1998, Sex And The City exploded all over our tellys with too-real stories of horrid tasting jizz and touchas-lingus. It was the first show of it's kind to blow open the dusty, cobwebbed book on casual sex. Since this revolutionary show first aired, women all over the world have been slowly but surely realising that having casual sex, which men have been doing for centuries, does not brand you a slut or a harlot but instead empowers and liberates you as a woman.
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| Casual Carrie |
I've heard of scientific studies which show that when women have sex, they produce a hormone which induces them feel an emotional tie to their sexual partner. But as the saying goes, not one person is the same. I also find it quite co-incidental that not only have women been taught that it's wrong and dirty for them to have multiple sexual partners, but that they're also born in such a way where they're not able to emotionally handle casual sex. Coincidence or conspiracy?
A few of my friends have started having casual sex, not that they go out every weekend and pick up total strangers and have one night stands (obviously not that there's anything wrong with that), it tends to be more of a reoccurance of the same partners but purely for sex. There's no; Let's go to the movies tomorrow night or, what do you want for dinner babe? It's just a physical desire for the same person - no emotions involved. I joke about them being whores which in itself is ironic as I also partake in the odd late night casual tryst, but it's exactly that, a joke. On the whole these girls are happier then the ones in long-term commitments - go figure.
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I commend these girls who do exactly what they want and who they want. They're unafraid and proud of their sexuality - just as god and Carrie Bradshaw intended.
***All puns intended
Nice post Foxy. We may not be genetically programmed to have teh so called "casual sex", but sometimes, that's all we want and hell can it be satisfying. Well said. AS long as you are not cheating on someone (as in proper relationship), helping someone else cheat on someone else or doing something you regret in the morning, it's all good. And there should be more of it. More Judgements please.
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ReplyDeletewow i feel a strange and personal connection to this one mr fox. meaning also that you can no longer use your sticks and stones to break my bones haha.
i will now consider, that when you call me a whore, you are in fact alikening me to that of carrie and he sexciting friends.
love youuu
keep being your judgemental self xx
If you'll pardon the pun, I can't see any pun?
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